August is National Civility Month
If you watch any news - national, state or local - chances are you find yourself being polarized in one direction or the other. Go on social media . . . same thing, a lot of personal opinions shouting loudly for others to respond. And . . . far too often . . . someone does respond with a different opinion and it can get ugly, friends become "not so much friends", ie frenemies and on it goes until everything seems to be "my way or the highway".
There is an alternative. National Civility Month is all about recognizing that we don't have to behave in an uncivil, rude, angry manner with others . . . even when we don't agree with their opinion. After all, you are not entering into a contract, agreement is not required.
National Civility Month promotes respectful communication and constructive disagreement across political, social, and interpersonal contexts. You are encouraged to practice genuine listening, express disagreement without hostility, and rebuild basic mutual respect that many feel has eroded significantly in recent years of increasingly polarized public discourse.
This includes:
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Encouraging Respectful Interactions: Emphasizing the importance of treating others with courtesy and respect, regardless of differences in opinions or backgrounds.
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Fostering Empathy: Encouraging people to understand and share the feelings of others, promoting a sense of community and support.
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Promoting Positive Communication: Advocating for constructive and respectful dialogue, especially in times of disagreement.
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Highlighting the Importance of Good Manners: Reminding people of the value of politeness and consideration in everyday interactions.
How can You Make A Difference:
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Take the time to listen to others without interrupting and validate their feelings and perspectives.
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Show appreciation and respect by giving sincere compliments to others.
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Express gratitude to those who have helped or supported you in some way.
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Share positive messages on social media, be friendly with strangers, and smile at people.
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Offer your time and services to help those in need in your community.
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Talk to others about the importance of civility and encourage respectful interactions